tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27497982857009805542012-01-16T13:38:58.342+01:00... a different perspective on BDSM ...The Handnoreply@blogger.comBlogger21100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749798285700980554.post-527837930425481672012-01-16T13:04:00.001+01:002012-01-16T13:38:58.346+01:00The past few weeks have been difficult for both Me and My sub. We have not done much on the BDSM side as that would be too emotionally impacting for both of us. Next week will be much better. This however does not stop me in any way to think about ways to train My sub into listening better to Me and following orders.<br /><br />The clover clamp will come in very handy here. Although My sub has a very high pain level (she can tolerate them being on for at least an hour), I can punish her with them. She knows this too well and just showing them to her makes her face go "ow no..."<br /><br />I will be going to the Kamasutra Beurs this weekend... hope to see some nice goodies there (and show off My sub).<br /><br />-- The Hand<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2749798285700980554-52783793042548167?l=guiding-hand.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>The Handnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749798285700980554.post-34211615933913884492012-01-13T11:00:00.000+01:002012-01-13T11:00:20.541+01:00My journey as a Dominant male began about 8 years ago (in 2003). I found out that I had Dominant feelings inside and could not place them. Being unequal in that relationship at that time was not really possible, but I kept exploring my feelings. As I was reading more and more about this topic I found out that there were more people just like me, feeling Dominant and expecting submissiveness from the partner or at least someone. It was apparently not so weird as I thought it was. And it actually had a name: BDSM. I was excited... Hungry for even more information my search continued, however I could not test my feelings and eventually had to separate from my partner to explore my feelings.<br /><br />That was in 2011... Now I am finally able to be who I really am (besides just the normal guy working in the office of course). I am currently exploring My feelings with My sub (who will stay unknown unless I will allow her to write about it online) and she is being trained to be a real sub. I will post updates about this training and also - more importantly - on how I experience this process.<br /><br />Thanks for reading this and I hope you will find some useful information here (and of course enjoy reading it).<br /><br />-- The Hand<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2749798285700980554-3421161593391388449?l=guiding-hand.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>The Handnoreply@blogger.com0